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Post by Amanda Martin on May 24, 2011 21:39:59 GMT -5
"Jake is just as excited as I am about this. We both think its perfect timing, after our second wedding we're closer than ever" Amanda smiled, feeling really lucky, knowing she was blessed that she had a family like this. "Thank you, you're an amazing mother to your girls as well" Amanda said honestly after hearing Bianca's compliment.
"I'm sure it has been easier having their family here for them, at least they didnt just move to a town full of strangers" She commented. "I think its just amazing the culture they've already experienced at such a young age, that's so great for them, they already know another language have seen the world, and yet are still grounded and the nicest girls"
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Post by Bianca Montgomery on May 25, 2011 11:51:44 GMT -5
"Yes I know seeing Erica was exciting for them and those girls with my uncle Jack is just heartwarming. I know they had Zach for a short while but they really need a male to look up to and he fits the part perfectly. He loves them so much..I almost wish he had a daughter to raise because boy he would be a great father to her. He always was like a father to me." Bianca smiled at the thought.
"Thank you. I mean it is great when you think your kids are wonderful which I do but to hear someone else say that too. It makes me believe they are sweet even when I am not around to tell them to behave if they get out of hand." Bianca laughed lightly.
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Post by Amanda Martin on Jun 3, 2011 18:47:55 GMT -5
"I really dont think that your girls are deprived anything with the way you've been parenting them, and all of the family you have around you" Amanda mentioned as Bianca seemed a bit sad that her girls didnt have Zach anymore, but grateful they had Jack. "But they couldn't do much better than your uncle for a male in their life" Amanda nodded as she mentioned wishing Jack had a daughter. "Well maybe your mom and Jack will surprise us and end up with a little girl in a couple years" Amanda said with a smile.
"Your girls are definitely sweet and always so well behaved. I'm hoping Trevor has those kind of manners once he's their age" She said feeling a slight bit of worry about that fact. She loved being a mother more than anything, but didnt think she was nearly as capable at it as Bianca seemed to be. She worried not having her own mother as a good role model would somehow make her mess things up for Trevor, but at least he had Jake. "Do you think they're born being good kids? Or its more the parenting?" She asked curiously.
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Post by Bianca Montgomery on Jun 4, 2011 20:19:02 GMT -5
"Oh I think that would be perfect for them! But Erica keeps saying how this is the last one..although she said that with Colton too so who knows!" Bianca smiled in return.
"You know..I think if kids were born good or bad Miranda would have a lot of bad in her..because her father..raped me. But I think it has to do with parenting..and not only parenting but who gets to be around your kids. I have my uncle Jack, my mom, Kendall, Lily..some of the best people I have ever known. And Trevor..he has you and Jake, he has his uncle Tad and aunt Dixie..he will have manners and have fun at the same time. And I have every reason to believe that your next baby will be the same."
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Post by Amanda Martin on Jun 12, 2011 15:42:36 GMT -5
"Bianca...I'm sorry, I didn't mean to bring him up..." Amanda said with regret, having not intended to imply that Miranda could be anything at all like her biological father. "Miranda has none of him in her, she's all you, your beauty and heart, and morals"
"With Trevor, I guess I hoped he was just born perfect so that I couldn't screw things up...Erica's such a good example of how to be a parent that its like you grew up knowing what to do....I know lots about what not to do but I still worry I'll end up doing it wrong with Trevor, and any future children Jake and I have...but I guess you're right, we are lucky with all the people we have around us. "
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